As you grow, you learn.
You learn that everything around you has beauty.
The life, the death, the grateful, the tragic.
You learn how to look from a different perspective, and sometimes more than one.
You learn how to listen, with empathy and not sympathy.
You understand the vital importance of forgiving, and truly forgetting.
You realize that everything has a set place, a purpose, a desire. No matter what happens, even if you don't, the world will still go on.
And after a while you learn to be your own good catch, and not worry about the one that got away.